Jock Carruthers
1929 to 2021
Cremation Service
Location
Borders Crematorium
Melrose
TD6 9HA
Date & Time
11:00am Wed 17th Feb 2021
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Condolences
Billy wrote
16th Feb 2021
R.I.P. Jock, Happy memories from Braemar Ltd. and Teviotdale Harriers.
Jacky wrote
9th Feb 2021
So sorry to hear of Jocks passing. He always told such good stories, in the short time we knew him we became quite attached to him, he will be sadly missed! Please accept our condolences Mina, Anne, Alan and Douglas, we are thinking of you all. Love from Jacky, Jim, Sam, Chantel, Zoe, Joshua and Archie xxxxxxx
John wrote
6th Feb 2021
Our condolences to Mina and family at this time of sadness. Kia Kaha Edith and John New Zealand
Betty wrote
4th Feb 2021
You will be sadly miss our thoughts are with the family rip Jockxx
Eleanor and Sandy wrote
3rd Feb 2021
Sandy and I are so sorry to hear about Jock. We send our sincere sympathies to you all and thinking of you at this sad time. He will be a big miss to all who knew him. He was a lovely man Love from all the McVittie family.
Neil wrote
3rd Feb 2021
Sending our condolences from Jocks extended family in Ashington. Thoughts and prayers to Mina, Anne, Alan and Doug. Take care!
Sharon & Greg wrote
3rd Feb 2021
Thinking of you all at this very sad time Jock will be sadly missed take care to all the family love from Sharon Greg & Family x
Margaret wrote
3rd Feb 2021
Thinking of Mina, Anne, Alan &Douglas on the sad loss of their lovely husband and dad,.x RIP Jock will miss your lovely smile you were such a gentleman xx
charmaine wrote
3rd Feb 2021
sad news had the greatest of pleasure to care for you jock sleep tight
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