Robert 'Nisbet' James
1940 to 2022
Cremation Service
Location
Borders Crematorium
Melrose
TD6 9HA
Date & Time
12:00pm Mon 30th May 2022
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Condolences
Jill wrote
28th May 2022
Sandra and family, I was so sorry to hear this, my thoughts and prayers are with you all, lots of love and hugs to you all xxx
Thomas wrote
28th May 2022
My deepest condolences and sympathy to the family and friends. Rest in Paradise Slim.
Attending a funeral FAQs
What should I wear?
We normally associate wearing black with going to a funeral. But it is increasingly typical for families to express a preferred dress code. Our advice is to look out for information from the family in a notice published either in newspapers, online or in the funeral director window to advise you of their preference.
How long does a service last?
Typically a service in most churches or crematoria lasts around 20-30 minutes. A formal mass may take a little longer and we would expect this to be nearer an hour. Finally, burials can vary in length as they are weather dependent.
Where should I sit?
Family and close friends typically reserve the first couple of rows in a service. We recommend sitting nearer the front than the back of a service space in order to support the family and enabling late arrivals to discreetly fill back rows.
Where should I send flowers?
Often a family will express a preference for flowers - or charity donations in lieu of flowers. We recommend you keep an eye on notices posted in newspapers, or online or in the funeral director window so you are able to follow their wishes.
