Innes MacAuley Graham

Cremation Service: Tue 2nd Aug 2022

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Passed away on Wednesday 20th July 2022 at Borders General Hospital. Loving husband of Anne. Proud dad of Jill and Alan, father-in-law of Mandy and very loving papa of Joshua, Charlotte and Melissa. Service to be held at Borders Crematorium on Tuesday 2nd August 2022 at 11.00am

Cremation Service


Borders Crematorium

Date & Time

11:00am Tue 2nd Aug 2022

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Lesley wrote

26th Jul 2022

Thinking of you all at this sad time.

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Grant wrote

24th Jul 2022

A one of a kind Uncle who will be greatly missed.

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Kaymarie wrote

22nd Jul 2022

A lovely man and a true gentleman who was very well liked by those lucky enough to know him. Condolences to Anne, Jill, Alan and their families

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