Carol Barskanmay

Burial Service: Mon 18th Apr 2022

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Peacefully on Friday 1st April 2022, at Margaret Kerr Unit, BGH, after a brave battle with her illness, Carol (nee Murphy), loving mum to Ashley, devoted granny to Naomi and Alaïa, a much loved daughter to Liz and the late George, sister to George, Margaret, Michael, Brenda and Wendy, and a dear auntie and friend to many. A private service will take place followed by a burial service at Wellogate Cemetery, on Monday 18th April 2022, at 1.30 pm, to which all family and friends are invited to attend. Flowers open for the graveside service.

Burial Service

Location

Wellogate Cemetery, Hawick
TD9 9NE

Date & Time

1:30pm Mon 18th Apr 2022

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Pat wrote

24th Apr 2022

I am heartbroken you are gone. I will miss you so much Carol, miss the banter and laughs. Deepest condolences to all your family, Rest in peace you beautiful soul.

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Carol wrote

17th Apr 2022

Carol was such a beautiful person inside and out and will be missed greatly.

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Shona wrote

11th Apr 2022

Rest in peace carol, one lady that fought so hard ❤sincere condolences to all your family who stood right beside you as you thought xx

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Ian wrote

8th Apr 2022

So sorry to hear this. My thoughts and prayers are with all the family.

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Lynn wrote

7th Apr 2022

Deeply saddened hearing that Carol has lost her fight. Recently looked after her and despite her illness she had not lost her smile. Carol will leave a huge void for all who loved her. Rest in peace x Lynn (Barlow)

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Sheena wrote

7th Apr 2022

So sorry thinking of all of you .

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Sandra wrote

7th Apr 2022

So sorry for your loss, the best memories growing up in Burnfoot. Sending love and strength to all Carols's family

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Josie wrote

7th Apr 2022

My lovely childhood friend So sad to hear of your passing Always such warm memories Can’t begin to imagine the pain and loss your family are going thru My heart felt condolences to you all Love Josie ❤️😪

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Susan wrote

7th Apr 2022

Treasured memories of you Carol,the days of Jumble sales and concerts with memories that will last forever. Rest easy with your lovely Dad. My love to you all xxx💓💓💓

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Isla wrote

6th Apr 2022

Thoughts with Ashley and the girls off there beautiful mum and Granny xx

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Marie wrote

6th Apr 2022

So,so sorry for the loss of Carol, a beautiful lady who had the most amazing smile. X

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Isla wrote

6th Apr 2022

Beautiful lady ❤ beloved daughter sister and true fried will be missed ,great memories I take with me my dearest friend who never let me down xx

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Hannah wrote

6th Apr 2022

Sending you all my love, absolutely devastated to hear of Carol’s passing- she was a wonderful woman and always so so good to me. I’ll remember her smiling face forever x

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Craig wrote

6th Apr 2022

Forever grateful for your friendship Carol. You were 1 in a million. Rest easy Thinking of all the family at this time. Xx

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Lesley wrote

6th Apr 2022

Sending all my love to you all at this very sad time 😢 especially to Brenda my life long friend wish I was there to give you a hug ❤ xx

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Audrey wrote

6th Apr 2022

Thinking of all the family at this sad time...sleep with the Angels Carol.....Audrey and Rhona (Neilson) South Carolina USA

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Linzi wrote

6th Apr 2022

Rest easy carol❤️ One of the best will never forget the memories since you moving in next door to my stepmum, always spoke away 🥰 thought are with family x

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Joanne wrote

6th Apr 2022

So sorry to hear this sad news not only was Carol a good work colleague but she was a very good friend Carol had a hear of gold and would do anything for anybody she will be deeply missed you now have your Angel wings fly high Carol GBNF.X

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Allan wrote

6th Apr 2022

So sorry to hear about Carol long time friend, will sadly be missed. Thinking of Liz,Ashley and all the Murphy family. xx

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Linda wrote

6th Apr 2022

Condolences to Liz,, Ashley & family on the sad loss of beautiful Carol. I will miss you forever my dear friend. I’d love could have saved you , you would have lived forever! 🌹

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Julie wrote

6th Apr 2022

Fly high with the angels carol Rip Xxx

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Jackie wrote

6th Apr 2022

Rest in peace Carol you will be sadly missed by everyone that knew you. Thinking of your family at this very sad time💖 THE TOFTS FAMILY

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Shona wrote

6th Apr 2022

So sorry to hear this Carol was lovely we had some laughs when we went out when we were younger. Thoughts are with all the family at this sad time ❤️

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Fiona wrote

6th Apr 2022

I am so sorry to hear such sad news, Carol was a lovely lady , my thoughts are with all her family RIP Lovely lady ♥️

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Fiona wrote

6th Apr 2022

I am so sorry to hear such sad news, Carol was a lovely lady , my thoughts are with all her family RIP Lovely lady ♥️

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Douglas wrote

6th Apr 2022

Such a wonderful, lovely person you were Carol. I loved our blether when I saw you out and about. Thinking about your family at this sad time .You'll be missed for sure GBNF ❤

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GWYNETH & JIM wrote

5th Apr 2022

So sad to hear this news 😪 Thinking about all the family at this sad time.Take care.lv Gwyneth and Jim xx

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Hawick
TD9 9NW

01450 377 284
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