Carol Barskanmay
1960 to 2022
Burial Service
Location
Wellogate Cemetery, Hawick
TD9 9NE
Date & Time
1:30pm Mon 18th Apr 2022
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Condolences
Pat wrote
24th Apr 2022
I am heartbroken you are gone. I will miss you so much Carol, miss the banter and laughs. Deepest condolences to all your family, Rest in peace you beautiful soul.
Carol wrote
17th Apr 2022
Carol was such a beautiful person inside and out and will be missed greatly.
Shona wrote
11th Apr 2022
Rest in peace carol, one lady that fought so hard ❤sincere condolences to all your family who stood right beside you as you thought xx
Ian wrote
8th Apr 2022
So sorry to hear this. My thoughts and prayers are with all the family.
Lynn wrote
7th Apr 2022
Deeply saddened hearing that Carol has lost her fight. Recently looked after her and despite her illness she had not lost her smile. Carol will leave a huge void for all who loved her. Rest in peace x Lynn (Barlow)
Sandra wrote
7th Apr 2022
So sorry for your loss, the best memories growing up in Burnfoot. Sending love and strength to all Carols's family
Josie wrote
7th Apr 2022
My lovely childhood friend So sad to hear of your passing Always such warm memories Can’t begin to imagine the pain and loss your family are going thru My heart felt condolences to you all Love Josie ❤️😪
Susan wrote
7th Apr 2022
Treasured memories of you Carol,the days of Jumble sales and concerts with memories that will last forever. Rest easy with your lovely Dad. My love to you all xxx💓💓💓
Isla wrote
6th Apr 2022
Thoughts with Ashley and the girls off there beautiful mum and Granny xx
Marie wrote
6th Apr 2022
So,so sorry for the loss of Carol, a beautiful lady who had the most amazing smile. X
Isla wrote
6th Apr 2022
Beautiful lady ❤ beloved daughter sister and true fried will be missed ,great memories I take with me my dearest friend who never let me down xx
Hannah wrote
6th Apr 2022
Sending you all my love, absolutely devastated to hear of Carol’s passing- she was a wonderful woman and always so so good to me. I’ll remember her smiling face forever x
Craig wrote
6th Apr 2022
Forever grateful for your friendship Carol. You were 1 in a million. Rest easy Thinking of all the family at this time. Xx
Lesley wrote
6th Apr 2022
Sending all my love to you all at this very sad time 😢 especially to Brenda my life long friend wish I was there to give you a hug ❤ xx
Audrey wrote
6th Apr 2022
Thinking of all the family at this sad time...sleep with the Angels Carol.....Audrey and Rhona (Neilson) South Carolina USA
Linzi wrote
6th Apr 2022
Rest easy carol❤️ One of the best will never forget the memories since you moving in next door to my stepmum, always spoke away 🥰 thought are with family x
Joanne wrote
6th Apr 2022
So sorry to hear this sad news not only was Carol a good work colleague but she was a very good friend Carol had a hear of gold and would do anything for anybody she will be deeply missed you now have your Angel wings fly high Carol GBNF.X
Allan wrote
6th Apr 2022
So sorry to hear about Carol long time friend, will sadly be missed. Thinking of Liz,Ashley and all the Murphy family. xx
Linda wrote
6th Apr 2022
Condolences to Liz,, Ashley & family on the sad loss of beautiful Carol. I will miss you forever my dear friend. I’d love could have saved you , you would have lived forever! 🌹
Jackie wrote
6th Apr 2022
Rest in peace Carol you will be sadly missed by everyone that knew you. Thinking of your family at this very sad time💖 THE TOFTS FAMILY
Shona wrote
6th Apr 2022
So sorry to hear this Carol was lovely we had some laughs when we went out when we were younger. Thoughts are with all the family at this sad time ❤️
Fiona wrote
6th Apr 2022
I am so sorry to hear such sad news, Carol was a lovely lady , my thoughts are with all her family RIP Lovely lady ♥️
Fiona wrote
6th Apr 2022
I am so sorry to hear such sad news, Carol was a lovely lady , my thoughts are with all her family RIP Lovely lady ♥️
Douglas wrote
6th Apr 2022
Such a wonderful, lovely person you were Carol. I loved our blether when I saw you out and about. Thinking about your family at this sad time .You'll be missed for sure GBNF ❤
GWYNETH & JIM wrote
5th Apr 2022
So sad to hear this news 😪 Thinking about all the family at this sad time.Take care.lv Gwyneth and Jim xx
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