Aileen Buchanan
1958 to 2023
Service at Borders Crematorium, Melrose on Monday 23rd October at 2.00 pm, all friends are respectfully invited. Family flowers only please.
Cremation Service
Location
Borders Crematorium
Melrose
TD6 9HA
Date & Time
2:00pm Mon 23rd Oct 2023
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Condolences
Carol wrote
12th Oct 2023
Thinking of the fun times we had many years ago. Thought are with Jimmy, Cheryl and Grant ❤️
Shona wrote
11th Oct 2023
Sincerest condolences to Jim and the family. Aileen was a lovely woman and a great colleague with a tremendous sense of humour and a warm heart xx
Attending a funeral FAQs
What should I wear?
We normally associate wearing black with going to a funeral. But it is increasingly typical for families to express a preferred dress code. Our advice is to look out for information from the family in a notice published either in newspapers, online or in the funeral director window to advise you of their preference.
How long does a service last?
Typically a service in most churches or crematoria lasts around 20-30 minutes. A formal mass may take a little longer and we would expect this to be nearer an hour. Finally, burials can vary in length as they are weather dependent.
Where should I sit?
Family and close friends typically reserve the first couple of rows in a service. We recommend sitting nearer the front than the back of a service space in order to support the family and enabling late arrivals to discreetly fill back rows.
Where should I send flowers?
Often a family will express a preference for flowers - or charity donations in lieu of flowers. We recommend you keep an eye on notices posted in newspapers, or online or in the funeral director window so you are able to follow their wishes.
