Thomas Allan Rae (known as Allan)

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Thomas Allan Rae, died at home on Saturday 9th February 2019 with his family by his side, after long illnesses borne with great courage, dignity and humour. A loving husband to Sheila and the late Kathleen Rae, a loving dad and papa who will be sadly missed. Private funeral, invitations only at Allan’s request. Family flowers only please and no cards.

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John Beattie & Sons Funeral Directors

Weensland Road
Hawick
TD9 9NW

01450 377 284
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